Friday, September 8, 2017

Our Fem Dom Tradition


Greeting all,

Our Fem Dom Tradition and History behind its manifestation

Lady Lisa is my best friend from Cape Town and We have know one another for the last twenty five years and She Knew Me when I first started Pro Doming under the name of Roxy in Johannesburg in the early 90s.
My work and dungeon would always intrigued her and all the equipment in my dungeon seeing the interest in My Profession I slowly passed on Fem Dom Mags from the States to my friend to read and equipment here and there and before I knew it Lady Lisa made the choice to become a Professional Dominatrix working from Her own private location in Randburg Johannesburg.

I then relocated to Durban and made the conscious choice to work under My Real Name Gail in Durban and Lady Lisa carried on Doming for a few more years in Johannesburg before She too relocated to Cape Town.

Through the years while visiting Me in Durban She mentioned to Me how much She Missed being a Professional Dominatrix and We decided to start a Double Fem Dom Tradition together whenever she came to visit Me We would have the recreations divertissement of a Double Fem Dom session together mentioning this dynamic to my Durban regulars some where delighted to explore this dynamic Us.

Others replied with one Fem Dom was more then enough to handle two together sounded way to powerful and far to scary to comprehend or experiences their
feed back from our Double Fem Dom sessions was that the verbal female Domination in Our Fem Dom sessions flowed well together in whatever We were doing in a session.

I then relocated backed to Johannesburg and We have carried on with Our Fem Dom traditions We can been view in action on
My twitter account under Videos

So there you have it boys.

Inquiries regarding Our Fem Dom Tradition can be made by contacting Mistress Gail on 072-349-5609

Friday, August 18, 2017

Junior disciplinary punishment for panty theft


While doing my early morning yoga practices my mind lingered upon a session that had been booked later on for the morning a Role play Scenario of a naughty boy who had booked a session to see me at 9.30 am session.


What happens if he does not have his panties on when he arrived for his session ?

We/ we had been chatting on whats apps the day before prior to the session play and the exploration of wearing panties had come up in our/Our whatapps chat.

I personally enjoy scenarios that have been discussed and planned a week, or a day, or two, in advance as I love the feeling of having my participant in question in a more palpable state of being and eager anticipation and excited of what’s still to come a day, or week, before sessions play the mental eroticism taking place before a session like this is simply wicked.

How was I going to sneak the panties into the session and scene and take the sessions play and scene from there.
Panties Focus Gail stay in the now.
No Monkey Mind Now.
There’s only the Now.
The Now of the session has not happened or unfolded yet !

Finishing my yoga practices I walked to my closet and selected a pair of cream panties from my cupboard taking them into my Dungeon and placing them under the two pillows that lay on my bondage table.
Before jumping into the shower and thinking to myself I hope he’s wearing panties if not I will just simply have to slip the knickers into his pocket and take the session from there.
Showered dressed and ready for the session a knock is hear on my front door, pausing for a moment opening My front door to see the School boy
has arrives at his appointed timeline.

Hello Head Mistress Gail How are you Luke asks politely with his hands behind his back. I am well thank you Luke.
I see Julia has brought you to to My Offices Yes Ma’am. Thank you Julia for bring Luke to my Office.
Your welcome Ma’am you may leave now. Yes Ma’am

You know why you are here Luke ? I’m not sure why I am here Ma’am I was told to report to your office.
Follow Me Luke and i am lead into the Head Mistress office.
I believe you have a teacher note for Me Yes Ma’am I do.

Handing Mrs Goodman note to Head Mistress Gail my eyes danced around the room taking in my surroundings.
Head Mistress Gail is not alone Mrs Goodman is sitting on the chair directly opposite Head Mistress Gail desk and Head Mistress Gail is reading the note with a grave looking expression on her face.

Disciplinary Letter

Head Mistress Gail I have sent Luke to your office with this disciplinary note.
Yesterday he was caught in the girls bathrooms while the matric girls were doing sports.
We caught him while he was sniffing one of the girls panties three of the girls reported their panties missing
when they returned from sport practice I am sure he has something to do with it.
I suggest that you give him a good over the knee spanking
and perhaps six of your best while he is bending over the chair.
Mrs Goodman

Head Mistress Gail looks up at me with a somber expression on her face.
What were you doing in the Matric girls changing rooms Luke ? I needed the loo Head Mistress and the boys toilets are to far away to walk to I was busting Ma’am.
Oh Really I find that simply hard to believe especially when you were caught red handed smelling one of the girl’s panties in their changing room.

How does wanting to use the loo equate to smelling one of the matric girls panties young man ?
Not sure Ma’am, Why are you lying to Mrs Goodman and myself here ?
you were caught red handed sniffing them that is why Miss Goodman is in my office today.
No Ma’am I didn’t !
Are you calling Miss Goodman a liar young man ?
No Ma’am you sure about that young man as you would be in serious case of hot water if you were implying so.
Yes Ma am no I was not Head Mistress Gail.

Panties have been disappeared out of the matric girls changing rooms for well over a month now and l am convinced you have something to do with it !
“No Ma’am i don’t please believe me i pleaded” to Head Mistress Gail. Don t play coy with Me young man

What’s that sticking out of your pocket boy?
Nothing Head Mistress Gail It by not means looks like nothing to Me Take it out of your pant pocket this instance !
Lord behold and what is that ! with a sheepish look on my face i reply with it’s one of the matric girls panties Headmistress Gail.

Mrs Goodman and myself knew you were the culprit all along and there’s the evidence in your hand to prove it.
Yes Ma’am you do realize this is a serious offense and theft of any nature is not tolerated in our School and students
who break Our School rules are disciplined for it. Yes Ma’am

Miss Goodman has selected the discipline and punishment befitting your transgression

you will be spanked over my lap first Our intention behind spanking you this way will be to make sure that all the blood around your bum cheeks rises to the surface of your skin as a warm up tenderizing your skin for your to receive a Junior disciplinary six of the best from Head Mistress Gail cane bending over this chair young man. Yes Ma’am.

Over My Knee young man ! Yes Ma’am Miss Goodman will not be leaving my office she will watching you take your punishment today as its a serious offense to lie to a teacher young man.
Yes Ma’am bending over Head Mistress lap I was spanked for lying to Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman for not admitting to stealing the matric girls panties.
A firm strong hand found itself on my bum cheeks making a loud clapping sound as each smack of Head Mistress hand left a hand print and tingling stinging sensation on my skin.

Gazing lustfully down at Head Mistress Gail’s well defined legs in stocking and patent shoes my bottom started to warm up from each smack that was administered upon both my bum cheeks
Both Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman smirked in delight at my discomfort and humiliations.
Of my lap young man drop your trousers to your knees for Head Mistress to examine what your bottom looks like from been thoroughly spanked by Me.
Yes Ma’am i wasn’t wearing any under-rods and as my trousers flew to my knees more evidence was revealed to Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman.
I knew I was going to be in even more hot water,

I knew it I heard Miss Goodman say looking at Head Mistress Gail a second set of panties not just one set there another set of panties under those panties a black lacy pair as well.
Three sets of panties found on you young man ? What do you have to say to Us regarding this ? i i don’t know Ma’am i stuttered what do you mean you don’t know ? No pleading your innocents now it seems ! No Ma’am blushing in embarrassment.

This stealing of yours has the appearance of a panty fetish to both Miss Goodman and myself and seeing as you love wearing those soft sexy silky lacy panties you will punished in them to teach you a lesson.

Your bottom has already been smacked my favorite shade of pink and now I am going to add another six more beautiful contoured lines onto your bottom with my dragon cane.
Our reasoning behind choosing the number six is as follows:
three for stealing the matric girls panties and another three strokes for lying to both of us regarding stealing them. This form of punishment is know as a Junior disciplinary punishment for the crimes you have committed. Yes Ma’am
Bend over the chair young man and you will count down each stroke delivered on your bottom backwards from the number of strokes going to be inflicted upon your bottom. Yes Ma’am.

With a menacing look in Head Mistress Gail eyes Head Mistress Gail bent her cane in front of me for me to see the flexibility of her dragon cane.
i bent over the chair in trepidation of being Caned quacking in my shoes and i was instructed to count down the caning strokes backwards for six to one aloud for both Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman to hear me.
How could I have been so foolish to wear the panties to school today I had been caught red handed for stealing the matric girls panties and my panty fetish was one that couldn’t be denied any longer and the sweet temptations of having those sexy soft silky lacy panties so close to my naked skin was far to irresistible to resist.

My thoughts swiftly interrupted by the cane stroke whooshing across my naked buttocks six Head Mistress Gail as the counting down has begun and a dense bouncing sensation of warmth and stinging is felt on my naked bum.
Another five to go young man I heard Miss Goodman say to Me.
Yes Ma’am are you sorry for lying to both of Us young man yes Miss Goodman I am very sorry for lying to both of you Ma’am.

Miss Goodman nodding looks at Head Mistress Gail and another cane stroke is placed across my naked bum five Head Mistress Gail.
I promise you Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman I will never ever again steal the matric girls panties out of their changing rooms again Ma’am.
Do you solemnly swear that you will never do this again young man yes Ma’am as another stroke contoured its line on my full exposed naked bum four Head Mistress Gail.

How do We know if he’s being truly sincere about all this I hear Miss Goodman say to Head Mistress Gail is he prehap not just saying this as he is getting punished for his indiscretions and scared that he might be receiving more punishment them the amount We have selected ?.

The server stinging on his naked bottom will serve as a reminder to never ever do that again.
Is that correct or not young man ? Yes Ma’am it is as the cane whistled through the air again marking my naked bottom with another line
and me flinching in pain three Head Mistress Gail.

Head Mistress Gail walked around to face me bending the cane in front of Me in a beautiful curved shaped arch and said I am going to make these last two strokes count with severity young man as the flexibility of the cane is extreme sever when I pull my arm back more to deliver the last two strokes to your naked bottom.
Yes Ma’am the second last stroked rained down upon my bare bottom two Head Mistress Gail as tears welt up in the corner of my eyes.

Miss Goodman the young man looks like he wants to cry I am sure he will no longer be stealing panties out of the matric girls changing room ever again.
I do believe Luke will be integrity with himself regarding his indiscretion as hes learning fast that this is no longer a laughing matter and a significantly serious offense.

I agree Head Mistress Gail Luke will certainly be conforming to Our school rules I heard Miss Goodman say to Head Mistress Gail as the last caning strokes found it mark on my naked bottom one Head Mistress Gail.


Your dismissed young man. Yes Ma’am sorry Ma’am

Thursday, July 27, 2017

How to booking an appointment to see Mistress Gail for a sessions booking.

The In and outs of Sessions Booking The Do and Don’ts.


Firstly make sure We/ we share a mutual interest. Ask Me if I do beginner bdsm fetish sessions?
If it’s your first time booking an appointment with Me say so. I’m aware that you will be nervous and unsure of yourself.

Share you fears and insecurities regarding the world of bdsm with Me and tell Me what you want to explore, and I need to be aware of any medical conditions you have.
I will give you a “safe word”, as a Mercy word. You use it and whatever is happening that you are not enjoying ceases immediately.

The fear of becoming addicted to your fetish will not happen here as I carry a strict policy.
All My slaves, submissive, sissies, naughty boy are to live well rounded and balanced lives. you will only be granted permission to see Me once or twice a month for a session.

For Me it is about training you to become a slave, mannerism, slave etiquette, slave positions, and how to behave in my presence, while granting your bdsm fetish for Us/us both to enjoy Our/ our sessions.

If you’re a regular bdsm player share your experience with Me regarding which Mistresses you have served in the past and some background information regarding your likes, dislikes, limitations, and medical conditions.

Address Me as Mistress Gail at all times. Addressing Me as Gail suggests that you are either seeking full house which I don’t offer, or you’re into sensation play and the Mistress /slave dynamic by no means appeal to you.

Permission is granted to enquire about my services on a WhatsApp, but NO session bookings are taken or recognised without a phone call confirmation with Mistress Gail.

This is my professional service, and livelihood and you are visiting a Dominant Woman, assertive and in charge of all areas of Her life and you the slave, submissive, naughty boy, or sissy , will follow My Rules, My Way.

Sessions are be confirmed telephonically forty five minutes in advance to be able to see Me for a sessions bookings

Here an example of a What’s App’s Chat this week

Name changed to protect this individual identity

Good Day Mistress Gail. Trust you doing well Mistress. i would just like to enquire your rates for the following Fetishes i have.
i am a kinkster and i am into anal play, strap-ons, small to large golden showers , face sitting, smoking, cbt,and discipline.
i am new and would love to experience a Pro Dome as yourself Mistress
Regards Tom.

Perfectly presented written approach =.A+

Mistress Gail-
Good Morning Tom
thank you for your well written enquiry.
The session is for an hour and the tribute for the session is…….
Availability for a session is Monday to Friday from 9 am to 5 pm and on a Saturday from 9 am to 1pm.
All sessions are to be booked telephonically forty five minutes in advance before sessions time.

Hi Mistress thank you very much for your prompted response based on my request is there anything you are not comfortable with ?

Mistress Gail -
I am comfortable with all of your fetishes the golden shower to be administered where on the body ? into your mouth on your penis or on your body?

Thank you Mistress. Anywhere you in charge and i want to feel that you have total control over everything. You need to force me to do stuff you want to be done your way. i am your slave and you needed to use me for your own pleasure only. i need you to push my limits Mistress

Mistress Gail-
Wonderful ready to submit and surrender to Mistress Gail Music to Mistress ears.

ill try and see you today still Mistress at about 12h30 but as you mentioned i need to call forty five minutes before. but so far my time is for 12h30.

Mistress Gail-
Will not be able to assist with a golden shower this week as I’m on cycle this week.

That unfortunate. i understand Mistress.i will give you a call later Mistress. I must say i’m excited and scared at the same time.

Mistress Gail-
Exactly the way you should be feeling anticipation, excited and fearful. Wicked grin.

Mistress Gail-
Please be advised if you do not call and confirm you sessions booking forty five minutes in advance telephonically
your 12h30 session is not seen as a session booking by Mistress Gail.

yes Mistress. Its just i am in the office and its difficult for me to call. but i will try my utmost best. and thank you Mistress.

Mistress Gail-
Basic common sense slave you step out of your office and you call or go to the gents and call Mistress from there.
Human interactions and connection is vital to Mistress Gail without telephonically human interaction it doesn’t work because plain and simple
you coming to See Me for a intimate experience and If you cannot connect with me telephonically then we going nowhere are We /we now.

I agree with Mistress. will 30 mins suffice or am i pushing my luck.

Mistress Gail-
firstly you done everything wrong so why must I see you? you have not following my instructions
and you trying to top from the bottom who’s in charge you or Me ?

you are Mistress and my apologies just in the office and waited for the lift to get to the bottom
but i respect your decision. hopefully it wont happen again Mistress

Mistress Gail-
Next time you will be aware of how Mistress works regarding a sessions booking and you have not earned the right of passage to book a sessions booking on what’s Apps. you are not a regular to have this privilege.

Noted sorry Mistress.=G-

Mistress Gail-
Apologies accepted.
First slave training lesson approach, mannerism, etiquette,and submission before a session even happen is key to seeing Mistress Gail for a session. your mistake was what ?

Did not obey Mistress Instructions to phone forty five minutes before to confirm booking.=A+

Mistress Gail-
you didn’t indeed you called at 12h11 for a 12h30 session.

It’s an honor and privilege to be in My presence and to serve Me my website, advertising, writing, blogging, and Social media platforms speaks for themselves.
If you haven’t seen them then best you surf the web to find out More about Me and the mutual interest We/ we might share there is no free loading here and fee loaders and time wasters are easy to read Via SMS and What’s Up’s.

It’s one thing to say Mistress I’m ready on a What’s App’s its another to call and enquire about My services speaking to Me Personally regarding Our/ our mutual interests its another to call and execute action to experience a bdsm fetish experience with Me.

For Me this is seen as just dipping your toe into the water to see what out there and for Me this is called a What if isn’t yet session its not a full-fledged live one on one session.

Or thinking that its okay to book and appointment via What’s App’s or SMS when you have corresponded with Me via email
it’s impersonal, disrespectful reflecting a lack of disregarded for how my sessions booking work.

“Sms Me and What’s App’s for a session is a privilege that is given to regular slaves, subs, sissy, naughty boys
who have earned the right of passage to do so.”
you have not yet seen Me or Served Me on a regular bases to have earned the right of passage and privilege to do so.

Another is what are you going to do to Me in a session?

Life is an adventure ready to take the plunge with Mistress Gail and allow the elements of astonishment and unexpectedness to blow you away.

I live only in the moment and what you are asking Me to create is out of the now moment for Me.

It’s quite simple My reply to you is I count how may fetishes you have to see you for either and hour or half an hour sessions.
your experience level, your pain threshold high or low, marks no marks, pain or no pain ?

Is the session going to be a Mistress slave dynamic, or a sissy slut session or naughty boy sessions ?
Regarding what We / we have discussed telephonically, or by email and my creativity flows from there.

Or what can you offer me in a session that will make it worth my while for me to visit you for a session ?

Unorthodox distastefully behavior turning Me off straight away reflecting obnoxiousness, disregard, and disrespect for the Mistress slave dynamic
answering your emails briefly investing very little energy in them.
Or I will reply with I have no interest in seeing you for a session as you and I will by no means gel as you have approached Me incorrectly
even though your are wanting to tribute Me for a session.

I’ve lost interest in you as your attitude is undesirable and for Me its about enjoyment and there nothing more unappetising then tributes
for a session that I didn’t relish experiencing.

I have no premediated sessions script in my head.

I create My sessions from the time frame you are naked and on your fours in front of Me is appropriate way to start Our/ our sessions.
Make sure that your tribute is placed in an envelope and once naked and on all four crawl towards Me and place your tribute in my hands.

Once you confirmed your sessions booking with Me you will be directed to a designated land mark and will be instructed to call Me
from there ten minutes before your sessions time frame.

If you do as instructed within the time frame given this shows Me that you take the role you are about to play seriously and I will
be secretly delighted by your submission.

Topping from the bottom is also a turn off for me as it reflects a lack of trust in yourself and shows Me that you are frightened of surrendering
letting go and losing control and there is a silent war raging within you and that you are not physical, mentally, and emotional ready to surrender
yourself to Me.

After a session I will observe how you leave my premises do you open and close my gate on arrival and departure?
More insight into your personality and characteristic.

Do My gates open and close on arrival and departure shows respect and safety for oneself and Mistress Gail.

Feed back after a sessions is a plus factor as its gives Me insight into your bdsm fetish and what you enjoyed experiencing in a session with Me.
Even though I will be observing how your body and you are responses throughout the session to see what turns you on and what doesn’t turn you on
with what you have included begin your bdsm fetishes.

Be polite, respectful, honest, and clean at all times.

Friday, July 21, 2017

“News New Dungeon Space.”

Greetings All.

I am so excited and happy to share the following News with all of you, After two and half years I’m eventually going to be in the playspace
that I am so accustomed to playing in and conducting sessions in.


It’s finally coming to a close and will be spending most of this week end there while all of are watching the rugby finishing the final touches to my New Dungeon play space as a messy renovator working with all the building materials that I love working with.

What came to mind after working in the New play space was, it’s strange that men in general never talk or share how much fun it is to work with one’s own hands and how good its makes one feel, and and how rewarding it is to do so.

Ive been covered in cement on my hand nails hair and face full of dust and dirt and have loved every second of it, sleeping like a baby at night and who do I have to thank for exploring all these various aspects of Self the Dominatrix herself.

When one becomes more curious about exploring more of one’s creativity ones learns and discovers so many hidden talents
that you never knew existed or resided inside yourself.

It’s like unwrapping so many birthday presents and gifts given to you from the creator and stepping back in awe of what you have created realising
that there is so much more to yourself you never knew about you.

Two more weeks to go and New Dungeons Completed.

Delightful Wicked Regards
Mistress Gail

Thursday, June 29, 2017

An Uncommon Dialogue, My Journey, Story & Life’s Experience.


An Uncommon Dialogue, My Journey, Story & Life’s Experience, what I am sharing is my own life experience.

If you want to view the links I’ve shared highlight the link and right click and what will come up next is go to link.

I woke up one morning and starting creating this website, for me personally this is like everything that I do creatively in my life, I have no plans in my head it just happens and I find myself there.

Starting off firstly as bdsm mistress ads that I created as a sub domain of my own website speaking to Mistress Jackie in Durban she gave me feedback asking me if there was any possibility that it could be a site all on it own? I responded with it can be done that means I would have to register the site as a new site with a new domain name.

I will give my Service Provider a call next week and see what they have to say and how much it will cost to have a new domain registered with a new web hosting package.

What do you think of Calling the web site elite mistresses? as the name just popped into my head and the name was agreed upon? Reflecting upon the name it’s the same as the E that I choose in this lifetime E for erotic and E or esoteric.
Same pattern and cycle with fetishroleplay and the name popping into my head in 1997 for me today this is known as the as the Universal Laws of Rhythm.

I’ve been a Professional Dominatrix and Mistress in South Africa since the age of 26 to the age of 49 turning 50 this year.
First in Johannesburg as a baby dommie working under the name of Roxy releasing Mistress R Journal in the early 1990s and then relocated to Durban and carrying on my practice from there working under my real name Mistress Gail for the next nineteen years in Durban.

Observing my industry in Durban over the last nineteen years I had built a regular clientèle noticing that certain parts of my industry is still very fear based and it would take a novice between 2, 3, 5, 10 years to book an appointment to see me for a session and my own understanding of my industry is that a industry should grow if ones is able to teach novices who share the same bdsm and fetishes as you.

You can diversify with another business that not bdsm and fetish related to sustain and take care of yourself with for me personally, that not directing my energy fully on what I am wanting to create and experience in my industry and business.
Working with fear through my own life experiences I was able to have a better understanding of this emotion called fear is, and was able to understand that fear carried three aspects to it.

1. fear of the unknown

2. Imaginary fear of allowing ones own mind and emotions to run a mock inside oneself and allowing ones own mind and emotions to play tricks on you .
The trickster.

3. Fear is also the opposite of love where there is fear is the absence of love.

Love and fear are the two fundamental mysteries of Life and becoming conscious of what is solves the mysterious riddle of all life.

My own needs, wants, and desire had also changed as I was maturing though the cycles of life and my profession was constantly one of a fluctuation of resources that would go up and down through the month and years of having no stability to it.

Beginning in the constant flow of the unknown and wanting to create stability and security in my own life of owning my own home bond free freeing myself from the ball and chain of the system and allowing my own masculine and feminine energy to take care of me.

An Adventure Gail a trip to Johannesburg to see what the industry is like there for two weeks from there you will be able to make a choice regarding what you are wanting to manifest and create in your own life.
These were the things I had starting learning about and working with since the 12/12/2006

Experiencing a huge bill looming over my head I came to Pro Dom In Johannesburg in early October 2013. Placing and ad in the local Star newspaper in those two weeks I made R2800 for two weeks enough to live on and look after myself while I was here.

I am very grateful for the experience as it gave me the insight to know what I’m getting myself into and what I would be working with within my industry if I choose to relocate to Johannesburg.

Leaving Johannesburg’s behind to return to Durban Knowing after the 12/12/2006 I’m fully aware that I’m working with the laws of attractions and that I am a creative energy creating my own physical reality moment by moment through my own thoughts, words,and actions.

Meaning what ever I am focusing all of my mental thought onto and around I will create and experience in my own life either by default.

Which means not been fully aware of what I am thinking and when it manifest into a physical experience in my own life I’m yelping and become very angry and screaming at the universe and the world and saying that not what I wanted to experience in my Life.

Or through conscious awareness of my own thoughts and where I am focusing all my energy on Co-creating and manifesting my abundance and work with source 27/4 365 day of the year.

Sending abstract images in my minds eye of sessions I enjoyed doing out into the universe for them to manifest into my own physical reality and constantly asking for divine guidance, and divine support regarding my work.

Putting my house on the market in Durban and patiently waiting for my house to be sold the big bill still looming over my head was taken care of by my family and monies were to be paid back once my property was sold.

One night I went to bed falling asleep and in my deep dream state I see a woman in my spare room wearing a blue dress with a baby in her arms waking up the next morning remembering my dream and thinking nothing of it.
The only thought in my head is whatever the dream means it will unfold as my life unfolds in the ebbs and flows of Universal Life itself.

Looking for properties on-line I had no clue where I was going to live as I hadn’t lived in Johannesburg for nineteen years searching the property websites every time I looked at properties in Kensington I would get a nudge in my right leg and when I viewed properties in other areas of Johannesburg no nudge in my right leg would be experienced.
For me, this meant this is where I am to buy my new property saying to Source the Divine smaller garden prepaid electricity meter, smaller home not too much garden maintenance, less housework.
Close to shopping centres within walking distance and all my clients in Durban knowing my intentions and plans regarding relocating to Johannesburg.

An elderly couple who had viewed the property before came back with their son to view the property again putting in an offer to buy the property and their son and I starting chatting to one another. I’m very much a TV series junkie and stream all of my TV series and movies on line and mention where he can stream TV series and movies on line for free.

Tv has become a thing of the past for me can’t remember how it came to the stage of him taking his cellphone out of his pocket and on his screen saver is a woman dressed in a blue dress with a baby in her arms.

Who’s the lady in the blue dress with the baby in her arms on your phone screen saver I ask him?
That’s Mother Mary I teach at the Mother Mary convent for girls. Oh, I replied as I myself am also able to relate to Mother Mary and her apparitions through the years not a single rose in bloom in my garden and the smell of roses that lingers for a long period of time in my home.

Next question what your name? My Name is Michael I smiled as the name Michael has been very prevalent in my own life Archangel Michael namesake.

This is by no mean just a coincidence for me I will sleep on the offer for three days and make a choice from there is what I say to Nellie the property agent. Sleeping on the offer for three days I excepted the offer on my house fully aware of the divine guidance presenting itself to me.
Making a weekend trip up to Johannesburg to view properties staying at my best friend home and viewing properties together on Saturday we view two properties in Kensington putting in an offer to buy one of the properties in Kensington and Assumpta the agent’s responding with the offer to low Gail.

The property next door is for sale too they might except you offer on Sunday morning my best friend and I drive out to view the property walking around the property and peeking in through the windows to see what the inside looks like. Assumpta the agent doesn’t have the key to the property as other persons looking after the property and arrangement have to be made for Assumpta to collect the keys for the property to be viewed.
Small garden back and front lovely I say to myself low maintenance picking up some soil from the ground as we about to leave I bring the soil to my nose smelling its that lovely blackish brownie soil that rich in minerals things will grow here as I’ve been working with red clay soil in Durban a challenge to get things to grow in my garden. We will see what happens, as I am going back to Durban this evening.

My best friend will be viewing the property on her own and taking photo’s for me to see what the property looked like photo’s are taken and sent to me to view there’s a Prepaid meter its everything that I wanted and co-created with source and immediately put in an offer on the property my offer accepted and are monies transferred.
Taking a huge leap of faith I leave my regular clientèle behind relocating to Johannesburg on the 08/03/2015 to complete what I had set out to do on a soul level in this lifetime.

Noting that the previous owner and myself shared the same initials G.H / G.H is that another coincidence or not ?
What is even more bizarre is that the house next door to mine the previous owner name was Dimitri and my house previous owner surname Heine my sister two previous ex-husband names. Ok.

Through keen observation through the years, I’ve noticed We reach maybe eight or nine Professional Dominatrices in South Africa and that number constantly fluctuate over the last twenty five years.

In the process, I have always been in observation mode observing others in my profession on the net and watching them blossom and bloom into the beautiful Fem Doms and individuals that they are, as I observe them integrating and articulating their skills and professional.

Realizing that We don’t have a website in South Africa solely dedicated to our industry for us to advertise and market ourselves and skills on that complete bdsm and fetish related.
Sharing our own individual links to our own websites and social media platforms allows you to know more about us as individuals and human beings.

Making it easier for potential clients to find us who share the same bdsm and fetishes interest as us and our particular bdsm and fetishes that we all specialise in.

Through the years I have experienced the newspaper advertising of oh no you may not use that word and back to the drawing board I go Brainstorming on how do I do this and express myself and my services?
How do I advertise and market my work, my skill my expertise, what I enjoy playing with within my profession what gives me the most amount of pleasure in my work and makes Me feel good inside myself after a session that I’ve just experienced with a client?
How much fun the session was as everything flowed throughout the session from beginning to end and how rewarding the session was for both of Us/us.

Back to the drawing board again grrrr as I am not able to fully express myself and my services as I choose to do No freedom of expression to say it as it is. Having to replay with the words and wording and cutting it down or change it again grrrr.

Some Adult sites allow me to use my own wording and another put this symbol* after or in between my wording and its like hmm OK “ am I really OK with that or not? my reply is no I’m not OK with that! and My website I can add on some adults sites and others I’m not allowed to or that its another ad on the Adult Site.

I have no agenda behind creating this website of what’s in it for me? and what do I get out of this? It’s about serving one another to grow and expand our industry with writing about your sessions if you want to? sharing your work with videos if you want to ? educating humanity.

What I have learnt on a Personal level regarding the bdsm and fetish industry in South Africa the bigger picture.

1. By observing myself and others I have become aware that each and every one of us seems to gravitate to varies aspects of bdsm and fetish industry having there our own unique individual understanding of their skills and speciality in what they enjoy specializing in.

2. Clients are human beings too having their own personal tastes and preferences as to who they choose to session with.
I.e I enjoy drinking red wine another enjoys drinking rum or whiskey, My Industry pretty much works the same way.

3. Everyone’s material needs, desires, and wants are completely different from one another different tastes, likes or dislikes and there’s this ingrained cultural fear of lack and limitation of thinking there is not enough work to go around for everyone.

4. No Mental thought process and integration presence of our industry is not just a market of old players that are into bdsm and fetishes only?

5. There are so many new people out there who may not have known what they wanted to explore and have looked for a mistress on line and have gone back into the closet locally again until they find a Mistress according to their own personal taste and preference who they resonate with to session with.

6 Another is there are so many novices out there discovering that they have a bdsm fetish from seeing our industry on the internet and looking for Mistresses to see to train them and seeing Mistresses on professional bases.

Oh Yes, and let’s not forget about the hedonist the pleasure seeker who bounces around from one to the next until one of us is able to work with him for him to settle down and explore his own bdsm and fetishes desires with.

So many opportunities open to all of us

The epiphany of the bdsm and fetish industry in South Africa is following one’s, own heart, applying patience, having a passion, and dedication, to ones, own practice, a clear understanding of it’s unfolding process without pushing, or trying to control things, or trying to make thing happen by sheer force.
Co- Creating with source applying unconditional love to all my manifestation and surrendering to the same ebbs and flows of the universal life itself.

Understanding that manifestation is a creative process and your thoughts must not conflict with universal design for ones manifestations to become a physical reality in ones own Life.