Thursday, November 23, 2017

A women who yields power with discretion


Long serving slut boy has sent Mistress Gail a text messages of a Wish listed session he wished to Play out with Mistress Gail.

Scouting Mistress Gail suburb the day before to find a suitable venues for Our /our sessions play to intervene at.
A coffee shop which would suffice my Mistress mischievous appetite and the ambience of being safe and discreet where my Mistress could scene and play to her heart content in public without drawing attention to herself as well as me.

Mistress Gail loves playing in Public and both of us/Us were in agreement that our screening and playing should always carry an element of mystery, and intrigue, in public.

Arriving for my session i am greeted by Mistress dressed in a black skirt and a cotton blouse with leather sandals adorning her feet.

i am transformed into my appropriate attire a black bra g-string and a tight black dress which hugs my body like a second skin my transformation is complete. Mistress Gail instructs her sissy slut boy to put his normal street clothing on over his fetish attire.

A slave collar and leash is decadently placed around my masculine neck and leather gauntlets deviously play upon both my wrists.

Ready to leave sissy slut-boy ? Yes Miss i replied opening and closing the dungeon door behind Us/us and Mistress locking it.

Making our way to Our first designated destination We /we catching up on the in and outs of Our/ our daily lives arriving at Our/our first designation destination.

Parking the car in the parking lot i open the passenger door for Miss to climb out locking the car behind us.
my keys, wallet and cellphone are placed in Mistress handbag.

Entering the antique shop the coffee shop is located on the furthest end of the coffee shop we/ We make our /Our way up a long narrow flight of stairs reminding Miss of the Uk and how narrow their staircases are in there homes.

Sitting down in the coffee shop We/we surrounded by the vivid colors of canvas that grace the interior walls of the establishment and elegant furniture of old which stand noble and proud in today era. Mistress leans towards me restraining my hands in front of me lighting a cigarette inhaling and exhaling as a whiff of smoke is blown into the air waiting for the waitress to arrive to take Our /our order.

The waitress arrives placing menus in front of both of Us/us I hear Mistress Gail say to the waitress he’s been punished for not taking out the garbage the waitress just giggled at my discomfort and the situation i am in leaving Us/us to read Our /our menus.

A short while later the waitress returns taking Our/our order it’s isn’t long and Our /our order arrives. Drinking my coffee slowly Miss looks me directly in the eyes saying once you’re finished your coffee sissy slut boy your are to go down on your knees in front of Miss and wait there until Mistress gives you further instruction sissy slut boy Yes Mistress I reply with.

i am no longer able to savour its delectable smooth liquid slowly as i love and adore serving My Mistress in public finishing my coffee with enthusiastic eagerness i quickly stand up walking toward my Mistress for Miss to release my hands from their bonds.

Immediately going down on my knees in front of Mistress good boy i hear Mistress say as Mistress stands up from her chair and restrains my hands behind my back sitting back down on her chair again.

Mistress notices the bulge in my jeans gently tapping my bulging erection with her leather sandal and then gently processed to apply light pressure with her sandal onto my bulging erection smiling at me as She watches my excitement and discomfort growing in public.

Mistress stretches her curvaceous right long leg in front of me to reveal her luxurious foot enthralled in its leather sandals worship it sissy slut boy.
Obeying i comply kissing and worship Mistress foot with my hands restrained behind my back.
That’s it sissy slut boy show Mistress how much you adore worshiping your Goddess feet in public sissy slut boy.


Yes Mistress as Mistress lingeringly finishes Her coffee Miss frees my hands from their bonds again and restrains my hands in front of me.
Leaving the coffee shop and briefly browsing around the antique shop for a moment Miss notices the CCTV cameras and mentions this to me and i reply with oh wow love being watched in public the voyeurism aspect of Self surfing to the surface.
we/ We pay our bill and leave with me leading the way and Mistress walking directly behind me.

Mistress eyes catches an elderly man sitting at his computer as he notices her slave pass by him and for a fleeting moment a look of astoundment crosses his weathered face of did I really just see that or not ?

My hands are once again released from their predicament and my car keys are placed in my hands opening the car door for Miss and closing the door behind her We/ we head off to our /Our second destination.

Parking under a tree in the park its fairly early a few people are around Miss clips the leash onto my slave collar.
Blue skies greet Us/ us not a layer of white in the sky and a vastness of luscious green beckons us into it depth as Mistress beguiling leads me into it.

Making our way onto the walk way that encompasses the lake my psyche enraptures into a euphoria of its own.
I’m not even not aware that Miss has lead me into a small secluded cluster of tress instructing me to drop my pants and to bend over the cement bin where Miss gives me a spanking of six of the best on my naked bottom exhilaration soars through my body.

Disrobe sissy slut boy, Yes Miss and once done you are to lie down on the ground for Miss.
Yes Miss with acute accuracy golden liquid cascades into my mouth as Miss uses my mouth as her public toilet.
Miss was busting sissy slut boy and nothing more enticing despicable and delightful then using your mouth as My human toilet sissy slut you may stand up now sissy slut boy. Yes Miss

Miss will be carrying your shoes and shirt sissy slut boy pull your pants up and fastening only your jeans button and belt keeping your zipper open for Mistress Gail. Yes Mistress
Open your hand sissy slut boy a clicking sound is heard and the leash drops into my hands tuck the leash neatly into your Jean pocket sissy slut boy Yes Miss.

Miss hand suddenly encases my cock pulling me back onto the pathway i am beginning lead around by my cock for a short distance and with an abrupt halt Mistress turns arounds and makes her way to a bench over looking the lake Mistress sits down on the bench lighting a cigarette remove your jeans sissy slut boy.

I’m sure you would love to feel the full freedom of you’re flirtatious black dress against you’re naked skin in public sissy slut boy.
Yes Miss I would love too. Hmm I thought so sissy slut boy and once you’re done you have permission to sit down next to Mistress sissy slut boy while I enjoy a leisurely cigarette sissy slut boy. Yes Miss.
Make sure that you give Mistress your leash once your done sissy slut boy. Yes Miss

We/we both caught in the moment no words are spoken as Mistress enjoy her cigarette in Our /our picturesque surrounding overlooking the lake and feathered winged creature skim across the water taking flight into the blue sky.

The silence is unexpectedly interrupted by Miss yanking my collar as i realise Mistress has already stood up from the bench and is leading me along the pathway by my slave collar dressed in my seductive black dress.
A soft breeze caresses my bare skin sending goose bumps and shivers down my spine as Mistress leads me to another part of the park people are starting to make their toward us and Mistress sit down on a stone bench with me waiting for them to pass Us/us by.

The park is becoming more active with people sissy slut boy ? Yes Mistress We will be sitting here awhile longer and then I think it would be wise to make Our /our way back to Mistress home sissy slut. Yes Mistress.
Our /our out door play has come to a close as We notice a security van pulling up into the club area of the park calmly i dressing back into my street clothing and Mistress unfastens the leash from my collar as we/ We make our way back to the car.

Arriving back at Miss dungeon I am instructed to remove my street clothing and i am once again lead round by my slave collar and leash in Mistress garden.
The walls are high in Miss garden and their is no one around to see Us /us as i am lead back into the dungeon to perform my task of being Mistress sissy slut boy porn star entertaining Mistress everything today has been a heightened sexual stimulus and sexual aphrodisiac of profound sexual eroticism.

Its as if Mistress reads my mind saying hmm sissy slut boy I do not think you will be able to entertain Mistress to long as her sissy slut boy porn-star
I am sure you are at your edge already sissy slut boy.? Yes Mistress i am, you have permission to come sissy slut boy.
Yes Mistress as i’ve been walking around in a heightened state of sexual arousal for most of the morning as i ride the crescent wave of sexual arousal to it final crescendo.

Sunday, October 15, 2017

Journal Entry about my life and journey

The unconventional lifestyle of a Professional Dominatrix and the challenges within her own psyche


Regarding her profession and the cultural conditioning mind fuck of unlearning everything that she had been taught to think in a cultural conditioned system.

Out of all the Professions in the world, I choose to become a Dominatrix ! I found bondage to be one of the most intriguing fetishes to work with. It’s a huge turn on for Me as a Switch in my home life and the nativity, thinking back, that I was going to making a lot of money in this profession when I first started out.

“I am a mystery to myself, a human jigsaw puzzle
with so many parts and pieces of myself that are unbeknown to me”.
Through careful evaluations of myself I start to discover
and understand the self that I am.”

I started to discover along the way that my profession required a huge energy investment from me i.e the work to understand what Classical BDSM is all about ?

From a psychological aspects of what makes a submissive, or slave or naughty boys’ mind tick over, regarding their fetish fantasy that they have ?

How to work with someone’s fantasies and fetishes. For Me, there is nothing more physically exciting and amazing, then watching someone getting aroused through their fetishes. Knowing how to work with their fetishes and which buttons to press.

How to understand the whole dynamic behind the scene and then all the other challenges that came along within the Profession on an individual level of the human being that takes on the Profession and Role of the Professional Dominatrix.

My profession required a lot from Me to remain mentally Positive in my profession and on the days and months that work and sessions were slow.

I would experience a lot of self-negating talking from my ego mind, and shadow chipping away within my own psyche that I would politely pretend wasn’t there.

I started to notice that all my days were open to Me to do what ever I wanted to do with them.

Back then it was seen as what do I do to entertain myself with while I waiting for work and a sessions to come in ?

For the day and not to have the constant nagging factor of work and money in my head all through out the day and doing something else would slow down the nagging thought process in my head.
At first I was not aware of what I was doing just knew I needed to get a handle on this ?

First it was sewing and making fet gear and doing alterations on some of my fetish clothing when I first relocated to Durban and would sit in front of the sewing machine making clothing. Then it shifted to diversification of offering another services such as controlled ejaculation and Swedish massage.

Coming to terms with the fact that my profession required a lot of self discipline from Me in various aspects of my Professional life.

Mental and emotional positivity of how do I go about my day
Self Discipline and self motivations to get up and get ready for a new day when its quite and leave yesterday in the past and to just keep going and saying to myself for every no their a yes around the corner.
Self Discipline and Self Awareness with my Resources and how do I work with my cash flow on a weekly bases in a clear conscious and wise way regarding responding to my responsibilities my bills
Self Awareness of how do I work with advertising and marketing myself and my services and expressing myself with words and wording to market my work and Branding My Name Mistress Gail.
How are they to be bought weekly or daily figuring out that weekly worked more effectively for Me
Spending of Resources during the week
To become aware of my spending during the week as all the odds and ends during the week would add up to quite a lot of resources at the end of the week,

All these challenges and opportunities for Personal Growth and Personal development open to me and still thinking to myself those that work for a boss their lives must be so much easier then mine.

They don’t have to worry if no work comes in for the day they still going to get paid at the end of the month.

Yet I’m not the type of person to go yes sir no sir three bags full sir and keep quite to keep my job that just not who I am at the core of my being.

I speak my own mind and say what I feel inside myself expressing myself and to keep quite and live that way would be sheer torture for Me.

I beat to my own drum so best I embrace all the challenges I am experiencing as its gives me an opportunity to heal grow and expand as individual and human begin.

I’m not in that position in my life if I don’t work I don’t eat and I don’t live and that where fear comes into my profession and psyche of the Professional dominatrix and the human being that I am.

Next Question ?

Why is My Industry viewed any differently in the sense of the word they selling a product and providing a services and how many products must they sell to adds up to how much money they make for the month. That would be called a Rep.

Am I not selling a Product too ? Or am I not ? What am I actually selling and specializing in ? Am I providing a service and specializing in Human Sexuality and Eroticism is this view as both a Product and services ?

So therefore then Am I a Service Provider providing a BDSM Fetish experience for another to explore with Me ?

I am working with fear, anticipations, expectation on a weekly bases and now I am experiencing the same thing within my own psyche is this what its all boiling down to Gail in your profession ?.

How does one work with this dynamic of Fear in ones own Professions life on a daily bases.

How does one remain real authentic and true to oneself in the progress while dealing with this emotion called Fear in one Professional life ?

What is fear really?
Where did it come from?
Why is this emotions Here ?
What can this emotions do to Me as a person and individual.
How do I work with this emotion ?
How do I overcome this Emotions ?
How do I see this emotions for what it Real is ?
What does Fear have to teach Me regarding Myself ?
How does one conquer this Emotions within my own psyche ?

I have this epiphany of Freedom within my profession to do so many other things and the journey of exploration to explore so many aspects of myself and when I look at the word today I giggle when breaking down the word you get free- dom.

How Ironic is that an opportunity to become a free dom. Regarding all these challenges I am experiences and to conquer and overcome all these challenges in my own life while I am being a professional dominatrix.

How interesting and exciting is this to discover about yourself being S in the cash flow quadrant. Self Employed and discovering all these opportunities open to you what a gift and blessing to have.

Then comes the Professional challenge as a Service Provider dealing with that conflicting word that all of us carry within our Human Nature EXPECTATION.

Every client that see you has some form of Expectation regarding the BDSM Services you provide as a Service Provider and this EXPECATION is not a conscious one its an unconscious one that only become conscious after the session they have experienced with you.

The Ego mind integrates the session and its experiences afterwards and comes to it own conclusion regarding the session with no feed coming back to the Service Provider to improve her services. Which always makes Me sad in more ways then one.

That why the email that went round was the best thing since slices bread as any form of criticism in what ever form is a Positive one for Me as I see myself as a painting a canvas of one that constantly evolving growing and expanding all the time.
With the realization that this is all about the Self that I am, the human being and how can I grown and expand and become more of who I am at a soul level.

Others have the EXPECATION that you must be in full Dom-mie Roleplay mode and you start the session and the individual your are playing with sits with a mouth full of teeth in the session and out the window goes all the spontaneity of creative role play that could have been experienced by both parties had he responded for you to combined this into the session.

Others have EXPECATION that your whole home must be a dungeon and that you should be living and breath BDSM 24/7 with No other personal interests regarding the individual person and human begin you are and that you don’t have a normal life due to the profession that you do.

Those are all you own thought process and projections that you have regarding a Professional Dominatrix.
They are not the thoughts or experiences and challenges of a Professional Dominatrix.

Another is you can’t please everyone as a Service Provider some will like you and some will not.
Its about building a solid foundation of repeat work and developing a platonic relationship with your clients

Others have no realising that you have chosen to live both lifestyles a unconventional lifestyle as well as a conventional lifestyle.

Yet the most entertaining and interesting aspect of all this is that unconventional lifestyle meets conventional lifestyle in ones own home life doing the same dance between the introvert and extrovert that all of us are in all aspect of our lives.

When one

BECOMES ONES OWN private investigator of your own self 24/7

you become aware of some many things regarding yourself that you where not aware of in all aspects of your life and your Profession shows you where you can heal grow and expand on a daily bases.

For instant the questions I presented to myself the Self Awareness that came to the forefront regarding work, money, people, human sexuality, fear, expectation, self discipline, self awareness regarding all the challenges surrounding my work and profession.

Slowly but surely I started to unlearn everything I had been taught to think about work, business, and money, through spiritual counselling and was given tools that I could slowly integrate and utilize in my everyday life.

A client was no longer seen as Money alone a Session was now integrated and interpretative as work and resources.
When work and resources comes in I will respond to my responsibilities of paying my bill and knowing that my faith in sources would make it so and that all my needs would be meet.

I do choose who I see I listen and ask questions first before I give my details out.

That fear itself was an emotions of fight or flight that fear itself was

false evidence appearing real or facing everything and rising.

That fear was an emotion to work with and not be frightened or scared of the emotion that when I became fearful of something that I had to acknowledge the emotions to myself inside myself and not go into denial regarding the emotions and to ask myself what am I frightened of and then to share the experience with sources and would notice the feeling and emotions wouldnt be so intense inside myself.

That when I didn’t have money I would experiencing separations anxiety regarding money and how to work with all those emotions and the fear of separation anxiety surrounding money.

So to all of you that might of thought being a Dominatrix is an easy profession its far from it.

Its a personal Journey of Self Discovery growth and healing and that

I have come to conquer myself and not the world.

Friday, August 18, 2017

Junior disciplinary punishment for panty theft


While doing my early morning yoga practices my mind lingered upon a session that had been booked later on for the morning a Role play Scenario of a naughty boy who had booked a session to see me at 9.30 am session.


What happens if he does not have his panties on when he arrived for his session ?

We/ we had been chatting on whats apps the day before prior to the session play and the exploration of wearing panties had come up in our/Our whatapps chat.

I personally enjoy scenarios that have been discussed and planned a week, or a day, or two, in advance as I love the feeling of having my participant in question in a more palpable state of being and eager anticipation and excited of what’s still to come a day, or week, before sessions play the mental eroticism taking place before a session like this is simply wicked.

How was I going to sneak the panties into the session and scene and take the sessions play and scene from there.
Panties Focus Gail stay in the now.
No Monkey Mind Now.
There’s only the Now.
The Now of the session has not happened or unfolded yet !

Finishing my yoga practices I walked to my closet and selected a pair of cream panties from my cupboard taking them into my Dungeon and placing them under the two pillows that lay on my bondage table.
Before jumping into the shower and thinking to myself I hope he’s wearing panties if not I will just simply have to slip the knickers into his pocket and take the session from there.
Showered dressed and ready for the session a knock is hear on my front door, pausing for a moment opening My front door to see the School boy
has arrives at his appointed timeline.

Hello Head Mistress Gail How are you Luke asks politely with his hands behind his back. I am well thank you Luke.
I see Julia has brought you to to My Offices Yes Ma’am. Thank you Julia for bring Luke to my Office.
Your welcome Ma’am you may leave now. Yes Ma’am

You know why you are here Luke ? I’m not sure why I am here Ma’am I was told to report to your office.
Follow Me Luke and i am lead into the Head Mistress office.
I believe you have a teacher note for Me Yes Ma’am I do.

Handing Mrs Goodman note to Head Mistress Gail my eyes danced around the room taking in my surroundings.
Head Mistress Gail is not alone Mrs Goodman is sitting on the chair directly opposite Head Mistress Gail desk and Head Mistress Gail is reading the note with a grave looking expression on her face.

Disciplinary Letter

Head Mistress Gail I have sent Luke to your office with this disciplinary note.
Yesterday he was caught in the girls bathrooms while the matric girls were doing sports.
We caught him while he was sniffing one of the girls panties three of the girls reported their panties missing
when they returned from sport practice I am sure he has something to do with it.
I suggest that you give him a good over the knee spanking
and perhaps six of your best while he is bending over the chair.
Mrs Goodman

Head Mistress Gail looks up at me with a somber expression on her face.
What were you doing in the Matric girls changing rooms Luke ? I needed the loo Head Mistress and the boys toilets are to far away to walk to I was busting Ma’am.
Oh Really I find that simply hard to believe especially when you were caught red handed smelling one of the girl’s panties in their changing room.

How does wanting to use the loo equate to smelling one of the matric girls panties young man ?
Not sure Ma’am, Why are you lying to Mrs Goodman and myself here ?
you were caught red handed sniffing them that is why Miss Goodman is in my office today.
No Ma’am I didn’t !
Are you calling Miss Goodman a liar young man ?
No Ma’am you sure about that young man as you would be in serious case of hot water if you were implying so.
Yes Ma am no I was not Head Mistress Gail.

Panties have been disappeared out of the matric girls changing rooms for well over a month now and l am convinced you have something to do with it !
“No Ma’am i don’t please believe me i pleaded” to Head Mistress Gail. Don t play coy with Me young man

What’s that sticking out of your pocket boy?
Nothing Head Mistress Gail It by not means looks like nothing to Me Take it out of your pant pocket this instance !
Lord behold and what is that ! with a sheepish look on my face i reply with it’s one of the matric girls panties Headmistress Gail.

Mrs Goodman and myself knew you were the culprit all along and there’s the evidence in your hand to prove it.
Yes Ma’am you do realize this is a serious offense and theft of any nature is not tolerated in our School and students
who break Our School rules are disciplined for it. Yes Ma’am

Miss Goodman has selected the discipline and punishment befitting your transgression

you will be spanked over my lap first Our intention behind spanking you this way will be to make sure that all the blood around your bum cheeks rises to the surface of your skin as a warm up tenderizing your skin for your to receive a Junior disciplinary six of the best from Head Mistress Gail cane bending over this chair young man. Yes Ma’am.

Over My Knee young man ! Yes Ma’am Miss Goodman will not be leaving my office she will watching you take your punishment today as its a serious offense to lie to a teacher young man.
Yes Ma’am bending over Head Mistress lap I was spanked for lying to Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman for not admitting to stealing the matric girls panties.
A firm strong hand found itself on my bum cheeks making a loud clapping sound as each smack of Head Mistress hand left a hand print and tingling stinging sensation on my skin.

Gazing lustfully down at Head Mistress Gail’s well defined legs in stocking and patent shoes my bottom started to warm up from each smack that was administered upon both my bum cheeks
Both Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman smirked in delight at my discomfort and humiliations.
Of my lap young man drop your trousers to your knees for Head Mistress to examine what your bottom looks like from been thoroughly spanked by Me.
Yes Ma’am i wasn’t wearing any under-rods and as my trousers flew to my knees more evidence was revealed to Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman.
I knew I was going to be in even more hot water,

I knew it I heard Miss Goodman say looking at Head Mistress Gail a second set of panties not just one set there another set of panties under those panties a black lacy pair as well.
Three sets of panties found on you young man ? What do you have to say to Us regarding this ? i i don’t know Ma’am i stuttered what do you mean you don’t know ? No pleading your innocents now it seems ! No Ma’am blushing in embarrassment.

This stealing of yours has the appearance of a panty fetish to both Miss Goodman and myself and seeing as you love wearing those soft sexy silky lacy panties you will punished in them to teach you a lesson.

Your bottom has already been smacked my favorite shade of pink and now I am going to add another six more beautiful contoured lines onto your bottom with my dragon cane.
Our reasoning behind choosing the number six is as follows:
three for stealing the matric girls panties and another three strokes for lying to both of us regarding stealing them. This form of punishment is know as a Junior disciplinary punishment for the crimes you have committed. Yes Ma’am
Bend over the chair young man and you will count down each stroke delivered on your bottom backwards from the number of strokes going to be inflicted upon your bottom. Yes Ma’am.

With a menacing look in Head Mistress Gail eyes Head Mistress Gail bent her cane in front of me for me to see the flexibility of her dragon cane.
i bent over the chair in trepidation of being Caned quacking in my shoes and i was instructed to count down the caning strokes backwards for six to one aloud for both Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman to hear me.
How could I have been so foolish to wear the panties to school today I had been caught red handed for stealing the matric girls panties and my panty fetish was one that couldn’t be denied any longer and the sweet temptations of having those sexy soft silky lacy panties so close to my naked skin was far to irresistible to resist.

My thoughts swiftly interrupted by the cane stroke whooshing across my naked buttocks six Head Mistress Gail as the counting down has begun and a dense bouncing sensation of warmth and stinging is felt on my naked bum.
Another five to go young man I heard Miss Goodman say to Me.
Yes Ma’am are you sorry for lying to both of Us young man yes Miss Goodman I am very sorry for lying to both of you Ma’am.

Miss Goodman nodding looks at Head Mistress Gail and another cane stroke is placed across my naked bum five Head Mistress Gail.
I promise you Head Mistress Gail and Miss Goodman I will never ever again steal the matric girls panties out of their changing rooms again Ma’am.
Do you solemnly swear that you will never do this again young man yes Ma’am as another stroke contoured its line on my full exposed naked bum four Head Mistress Gail.

How do We know if he’s being truly sincere about all this I hear Miss Goodman say to Head Mistress Gail is he prehap not just saying this as he is getting punished for his indiscretions and scared that he might be receiving more punishment them the amount We have selected ?.

The server stinging on his naked bottom will serve as a reminder to never ever do that again.
Is that correct or not young man ? Yes Ma’am it is as the cane whistled through the air again marking my naked bottom with another line
and me flinching in pain three Head Mistress Gail.

Head Mistress Gail walked around to face me bending the cane in front of Me in a beautiful curved shaped arch and said I am going to make these last two strokes count with severity young man as the flexibility of the cane is extreme sever when I pull my arm back more to deliver the last two strokes to your naked bottom.
Yes Ma’am the second last stroked rained down upon my bare bottom two Head Mistress Gail as tears welt up in the corner of my eyes.

Miss Goodman the young man looks like he wants to cry I am sure he will no longer be stealing panties out of the matric girls changing room ever again.
I do believe Luke will be integrity with himself regarding his indiscretion as hes learning fast that this is no longer a laughing matter and a significantly serious offense.

I agree Head Mistress Gail Luke will certainly be conforming to Our school rules I heard Miss Goodman say to Head Mistress Gail as the last caning strokes found it mark on my naked bottom one Head Mistress Gail.


Your dismissed young man. Yes Ma’am sorry Ma’am

Thursday, July 27, 2017

How to booking an appointment to see Mistress Gail for a sessions booking.

The In and outs of Sessions Booking The Do and Don’ts.


Firstly make sure We/ we share a mutual interest. Ask Me if I do beginner bdsm fetish sessions?
If it’s your first time booking an appointment with Me say so. I’m aware that you will be nervous and unsure of yourself.

Share you fears and insecurities regarding the world of bdsm with Me and tell Me what you want to explore, and I need to be aware of any medical conditions you have.
I will give you a “safe word”, as a Mercy word. You use it and whatever is happening that you are not enjoying ceases immediately.

The fear of becoming addicted to your fetish will not happen here as I carry a strict policy.
All My slaves, submissive, sissies, naughty boy are to live well rounded and balanced lives. you will only be granted permission to see Me once or twice a month for a session.

For Me it is about training you to become a slave, mannerism, slave etiquette, slave positions, and how to behave in my presence, while granting your bdsm fetish for Us/us both to enjoy Our/ our sessions.

If you’re a regular bdsm player share your experience with Me regarding which Mistresses you have served in the past and some background information regarding your likes, dislikes, limitations, and medical conditions.

Address Me as Mistress Gail at all times. Addressing Me as Gail suggests that you are either seeking full house which I don’t offer, or you’re into sensation play and the Mistress /slave dynamic by no means appeal to you.

Permission is granted to enquire about my services on a WhatsApp, but NO session bookings are taken or recognised without a phone call confirmation with Mistress Gail.

This is my professional service, and livelihood and you are visiting a Dominant Woman, assertive and in charge of all areas of Her life and you the slave, submissive, naughty boy, or sissy , will follow My Rules, My Way.

Sessions are be confirmed telephonically forty five minutes in advance to be able to see Me for a sessions bookings

Here an example of a What’s App’s Chat this week

Name changed to protect this individual identity

Good Day Mistress Gail. Trust you doing well Mistress. i would just like to enquire your rates for the following Fetishes i have.
i am a kinkster and i am into anal play, strap-ons, small to large golden showers , face sitting, smoking, cbt,and discipline.
i am new and would love to experience a Pro Dome as yourself Mistress
Regards Tom.

Perfectly presented written approach =.A+

Mistress Gail-
Good Morning Tom
thank you for your well written enquiry.
The session is for an hour and the tribute for the session is…….
Availability for a session is Monday to Friday from 9 am to 5 pm and on a Saturday from 9 am to 1pm.
All sessions are to be booked telephonically forty five minutes in advance before sessions time.

Hi Mistress thank you very much for your prompted response based on my request is there anything you are not comfortable with ?

Mistress Gail -
I am comfortable with all of your fetishes the golden shower to be administered where on the body ? into your mouth on your penis or on your body?

Thank you Mistress. Anywhere you in charge and i want to feel that you have total control over everything. You need to force me to do stuff you want to be done your way. i am your slave and you needed to use me for your own pleasure only. i need you to push my limits Mistress

Mistress Gail-
Wonderful ready to submit and surrender to Mistress Gail Music to Mistress ears.

ill try and see you today still Mistress at about 12h30 but as you mentioned i need to call forty five minutes before. but so far my time is for 12h30.

Mistress Gail-
Will not be able to assist with a golden shower this week as I’m on cycle this week.

That unfortunate. i understand Mistress.i will give you a call later Mistress. I must say i’m excited and scared at the same time.

Mistress Gail-
Exactly the way you should be feeling anticipation, excited and fearful. Wicked grin.

Mistress Gail-
Please be advised if you do not call and confirm you sessions booking forty five minutes in advance telephonically
your 12h30 session is not seen as a session booking by Mistress Gail.

yes Mistress. Its just i am in the office and its difficult for me to call. but i will try my utmost best. and thank you Mistress.

Mistress Gail-
Basic common sense slave you step out of your office and you call or go to the gents and call Mistress from there.
Human interactions and connection is vital to Mistress Gail without telephonically human interaction it doesn’t work because plain and simple
you coming to See Me for a intimate experience and If you cannot connect with me telephonically then we going nowhere are We /we now.

I agree with Mistress. will 30 mins suffice or am i pushing my luck.

Mistress Gail-
firstly you done everything wrong so why must I see you? you have not following my instructions
and you trying to top from the bottom who’s in charge you or Me ?

you are Mistress and my apologies just in the office and waited for the lift to get to the bottom
but i respect your decision. hopefully it wont happen again Mistress

Mistress Gail-
Next time you will be aware of how Mistress works regarding a sessions booking and you have not earned the right of passage to book a sessions booking on what’s Apps. you are not a regular to have this privilege.

Noted sorry Mistress.=G-

Mistress Gail-
Apologies accepted.
First slave training lesson approach, mannerism, etiquette,and submission before a session even happen is key to seeing Mistress Gail for a session. your mistake was what ?

Did not obey Mistress Instructions to phone forty five minutes before to confirm booking.=A+

Mistress Gail-
you didn’t indeed you called at 12h11 for a 12h30 session.

It’s an honor and privilege to be in My presence and to serve Me my website, advertising, writing, blogging, and Social media platforms speaks for themselves.
If you haven’t seen them then best you surf the web to find out More about Me and the mutual interest We/ we might share there is no free loading here and fee loaders and time wasters are easy to read Via SMS and What’s Up’s.

It’s one thing to say Mistress I’m ready on a What’s App’s its another to call and enquire about My services speaking to Me Personally regarding Our/ our mutual interests its another to call and execute action to experience a bdsm fetish experience with Me.

For Me this is seen as just dipping your toe into the water to see what out there and for Me this is called a What if isn’t yet session its not a full-fledged live one on one session.

Or thinking that its okay to book and appointment via What’s App’s or SMS when you have corresponded with Me via email
it’s impersonal, disrespectful reflecting a lack of disregarded for how my sessions booking work.

“Sms Me and What’s App’s for a session is a privilege that is given to regular slaves, subs, sissy, naughty boys
who have earned the right of passage to do so.”
you have not yet seen Me or Served Me on a regular bases to have earned the right of passage and privilege to do so.

Another is what are you going to do to Me in a session?

Life is an adventure ready to take the plunge with Mistress Gail and allow the elements of astonishment and unexpectedness to blow you away.

I live only in the moment and what you are asking Me to create is out of the now moment for Me.

It’s quite simple My reply to you is I count how may fetishes you have to see you for either and hour or half an hour sessions.
your experience level, your pain threshold high or low, marks no marks, pain or no pain ?

Is the session going to be a Mistress slave dynamic, or a sissy slut session or naughty boy sessions ?
Regarding what We / we have discussed telephonically, or by email and my creativity flows from there.

Or what can you offer me in a session that will make it worth my while for me to visit you for a session ?

Unorthodox distastefully behavior turning Me off straight away reflecting obnoxiousness, disregard, and disrespect for the Mistress slave dynamic
answering your emails briefly investing very little energy in them.
Or I will reply with I have no interest in seeing you for a session as you and I will by no means gel as you have approached Me incorrectly
even though your are wanting to tribute Me for a session.

I’ve lost interest in you as your attitude is undesirable and for Me its about enjoyment and there nothing more unappetising then tributes
for a session that I didn’t relish experiencing.

I have no premediated sessions script in my head.

I create My sessions from the time frame you are naked and on your fours in front of Me is appropriate way to start Our/ our sessions.
Make sure that your tribute is placed in an envelope and once naked and on all four crawl towards Me and place your tribute in my hands.

Once you confirmed your sessions booking with Me you will be directed to a designated land mark and will be instructed to call Me
from there ten minutes before your sessions time frame.

If you do as instructed within the time frame given this shows Me that you take the role you are about to play seriously and I will
be secretly delighted by your submission.

Topping from the bottom is also a turn off for me as it reflects a lack of trust in yourself and shows Me that you are frightened of surrendering
letting go and losing control and there is a silent war raging within you and that you are not physical, mentally, and emotional ready to surrender
yourself to Me.

After a session I will observe how you leave my premises do you open and close my gate on arrival and departure?
More insight into your personality and characteristic.

Do My gates open and close on arrival and departure shows respect and safety for oneself and Mistress Gail.

Feed back after a sessions is a plus factor as its gives Me insight into your bdsm fetish and what you enjoyed experiencing in a session with Me.
Even though I will be observing how your body and you are responses throughout the session to see what turns you on and what doesn’t turn you on
with what you have included begin your bdsm fetishes.

Be polite, respectful, honest, and clean at all times.

Friday, July 21, 2017

“News New Dungeon Space.”

Greetings All.

I am so excited and happy to share the following News with all of you, After two and half years I’m eventually going to be in the playspace
that I am so accustomed to playing in and conducting sessions in.


It’s finally coming to a close and will be spending most of this week end there while all of are watching the rugby finishing the final touches to my New Dungeon play space as a messy renovator working with all the building materials that I love working with.

What came to mind after working in the New play space was, it’s strange that men in general never talk or share how much fun it is to work with one’s own hands and how good its makes one feel, and and how rewarding it is to do so.

Ive been covered in cement on my hand nails hair and face full of dust and dirt and have loved every second of it, sleeping like a baby at night and who do I have to thank for exploring all these various aspects of Self the Dominatrix herself.

When one becomes more curious about exploring more of one’s creativity ones learns and discovers so many hidden talents
that you never knew existed or resided inside yourself.

It’s like unwrapping so many birthday presents and gifts given to you from the creator and stepping back in awe of what you have created realising
that there is so much more to yourself you never knew about you.

Two more weeks to go and New Dungeons Completed.

Delightful Wicked Regards
Mistress Gail