Monday, June 10, 2019

Mistress Gail is away from the 14th of June Till the 29th of June

Boys,Take Note,

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Mistress Gail will be in Johannesburg till the 14 of June and then will be away for a fortnight
Arriving back in Johannesburg on the 29th of June ..
If you have been wanting to book a Sessions booking then do so before then.

Dominate Regard
Senior Mistress Gail

FINDOM 101: Want VS NEED

FINDOM 101: Want VS NEED
2 weeks ago Lady F

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http://findomlifestyle.com/findom-101-want-vs-need/

Here is some great findom advice for how to get tributes using intent.
It sounds so elementary. We all know the difference between want and need and let’s face it, there is actually not much of one it would seem. I mean think about it. If I say “I totally want that purse” it would sound just the same to you as me saying “I totally need that purse.” It is as if we KNOW the two words are actually different yet we use them to mean basically the same thing. In our modern way of speaking we do not have to differentiate between the two words because we know that despite subtle gradations of use, they are pretty much the same damn thing in a casual conversation. In other words, they are said to indicate the exact same demand or desire. So what is the big deal then? The big deal is HOW you are going to get tributes as a findom.

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IN findom YOU WANT..they need.
The big deal is INTENT. The bigger deal is how they come off when using them as a findom. The biggest deal is the difference between getting that tribute or NOT getting that tribute. Yeah, I know. You’e thinking WTF, I WANT that tribute but I also NEED it. Why is this even an issue. Well like I said, it all comes down to intent.

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Findom is a delicate dynamic sometimes
Financial Domination is a delicate dynamic. But more importantly it is a POWER DYNAMIC. The very term power dynamic is used to indicate any relationship where one party is in control of the other. It means one party has POWER over the other. And in YOUR case-the case of being a findom- it means one party DOMINATES the other. I am sure by now you can guess which one YOU are in the relationship. As the findom you are the one who has the power. You are the one who does the dominating. This seems pretty obvious of course and I am sure is nothing you didn’t already know.

BUt here is the kicker. When you are talking to a potential sub or a financial submissive you must be certain to KEEP the power firmly on YOUR side at all times. This is WHY he defers to you, worships you and most of all, does as he is told. And the thing you are telling him to DO? PAY YOU. For him to actually agree and feel compelled to pay you he has to feel submissive to you. He must KNOW that you have all the control and can therefore use him as you please. In this case it means using your power to seduce or demand money from him in the form of a tribute.

Keep your power and get paid

FINDOM is all about INTENT.
Now you are probably thinking “well that’s all well and good but WTF does this have to do with want and need?” As I mentioned earlier they are technically the same thing in a casual conversation but in the POWER DYNAMIC conversation where YOU are making certain to keep all the power, you never want to give away that power to the submissive. THIS is where want versus need comes in.

Here are some examples
Let’s illustrate the point with some examples. If you approach the conversation of tribute from a place of NEED then you are giving him the power. Think of it like this. You are talking to a sub trying to get that tribute and you say you truly NEED this money because otherwise you will; not be able to pay your bills. This could be completely 100% true but you have just handed him the power. He now has the power to decide whether to save you from something or not.

You have basically said to him that you are in a place of need and that him giving you a tribute will remove you from that place. In other words, he has the POWER to take you from that place of need. Now all of this might be TRUE, you might really need this money. But unless this submissive already cares about you on a VERY personal level (has a very deep relationship with you that is more than just occasional service or tributes) it will basically just tell him you are in a place of need, not a place of demanding what you want. It DISEMPOWERS you to reveal to a basic stranger (which IS after all what most of these guys are) your actual NEEDS. I am not saying to pretend you do not have normal people needs. I am just saying that those needs are NOT part of this particular power dynamic relationship.
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So how do you get that TRIBUTE then?
So how do you get that tribute then? You do not make the concept of NEED part of it. The power dynamic includes NEED only on the finsub’s part. How so? Because HE is the one who is desperate. He is the one who is needy. He is needy for YOU. He’s needy for your POWER over him. And the person in power is the one who gets to make demands. And can you imagine what that demand should be? MONEY of course. Tributes. That is what you are demanding of this needy creature because YOU are in control.

In other words you WANT him to do something. You have a WANT, a CRAVING-not an absolute need. That is what HE has. BUt you do WANT something. You want him to tribute you. NOW. You demand it and he complies out of his need for your control. It has NOTHING to do with your need to pay your bills. To YOU it might have everything to do with that one fact. But in your power dynamic relationship with this sub it has NOTHING to do with what is going on. Matter of fact, it is none of his damn business. He is not part of that. He is a servant, not a partner. ALWAYS keep the power you have and do not let the finsub have it. YOU are in control and you already know this!

YOU must keep in control
See what I mean by want versus need? Now obviously do not take this advice in the absolute literal sense. I am not telling you to never ever use the word “need.” Evene at the beginning of this post I mentioned that the actual casual use of these words is pretty much the same. What I am saying in the debate of “want versus need” is not to be the NEEDY one. If avoiding the actual word “need” is part of what it takes to NOT seem needy then do it. Avoid the word. It can come off as needy to use it sometimes but only YOU know when those times are. So think of it as a “loose rule.” In other words a rule to consider but not to follow strictly.

The word WANT always sounds hot
The word “want” though? It almost ALWAYS sounds good coming out of the mouth of a findom. Think about it. “I want a new purse. Buy it for me.” or “I want some candy.” No matter which example you just read it probably came off demanding and perhaps even bratty. BUt it did NOT sound desperate, did it? Even when just reading that in your head it probably sounding like a bratty demand, lol. Because of that it almost always sounds good when used in conversations with your sub. So even though I cannot say to always only use “want” and never use “need,” I think you can understand the DIFFERENCE between the two.

Getting tributes as a FINDOM can be about intent
It all boils down to your INTENT. And we both know your intent-to keep the power and get what you want. Do it the way you feel sounds best. There are NO real rules in findom. BUt at the same time there IS always a power dynamic. Make sure you are represented in YOUR D/s relationship as the one with the power and you will find yourself getting paid time and again.

The Art of Female Domination an Online Dominatrix Training Course Taught By Senior Mistress Gail

The first of its kind
I’m proud to announce that I Senior Mistress Gail will be teaching an online Dominatrix Training Course called The Art of Female Domination for all those aspiring Ladies out there that are wanting to enhance their boudoir antics,or those that are wanting to learn the Art of Female Domination to become Professional Dominatrices.

The Course material will be dealing with twenty six subjects which will be divided into four online Training Modules Consisting of the following
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1 The Dominatrix Persona what Qualities and attributes make up the Dominatrix

2. The Psychology anatomy and head space of a slave, submissive, naughty boy, sissy slut and fetishist

3. Paraphernalia and implements of the trade and knowing how to work with them in a safe, sane consensual way.

4. Setting up your Practice and What is required of you .

you will remain anonymous The online training Course will be held on What App, Messenger, for an hour and will be recorded each Tuesday with a drop box link to a audio file that will be sent to you’re email address for you to download for revision and homework.

Any other Questions that you didn’t ask in class will be answered the following week before I processed with the next Subject.

Once all the Modules are complete you will be tested on everything that I have taught you.

A certificate will be provided to you on the completion of the course

Cost of the The Art of Female Domination Online Teaching to become a Professional Dominatrix is

R5000.00

Cost of The Online Boudoir Antics is
R3000.00

Mistress Gail can be Emailed @

dominatrixmistressgail@prontonmail.com

Dominate Regards

Senior Mistress Gail

Thursday, May 23, 2019

Collared enslavement and Servitude

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I hadn’t seen Mistress Gail for a few years and I got quite excited when an opportunity arose due to a business trip to Johannesburg. I organised a session straight away.

I arrived at her chambers with a vague idea of what I wanted to do but things started to spiral out of control quite quickly. She answered the door and immediately we started to catch up on the last two years. She asked me what I had in mind and I said that I would like to experiment with being a collared slave. She gave me a wry smile and said that it was a great idea, but was I fully understanding of the implications. She told me that once I had willingly submitted to being collared by her, I was her possession completely, and it was at her discretion to release me from collared bondage or not. She also said that there would be no discussions as I would have to comply with everything she ordered me to do. She looked at me and smiled saying that there were no safe words when you are a collared slave. I said I understood as she turned and walked away.

She came back shortly with a steel collar and a padlock. She told me to kneel in front of her. She looked me in the eye and said that I needed to enter into the agreement of my own free will and this was the last chance to back out of the agreement. I swallowed, nodded and said that I was prepared to be her slave. She then held out the open collar and said “do you of your own free will accept this collar from your Mistress as a binding symbol of enslavement and servitude, knowing that only I and no-one else can release you from this bondage? Knowing that I will own and that you will obey my every word without hesitation or question?” “I do” I said. With that she place the steel collar around my neck and locked it shut.

She stepped back and said that the first order was to strip naked. After I had done so she instructed me to stand before her. She pulled out a chastity device and said that all her slaves are to be locked in chastity. She proceeded to place the device over my cock and balls. It was difficult for me to remain soft, but eventually she slid the sheath on and pushed the padlock shut with a click. She said that she was having a friend over and she needed me to serve drinks. She showed me to a room to get changed. In the room on a bed were a corset, stockings, high heels and a French maid’s uniform.

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After I was dressed, I went through to the lounge. She was holding a leather hood. She informed me that I was required to wear the mask at all times. She helped me put it on and I soon discovered that it had a built in gag. She noticed this as well and said “don’t worry, you do not need to speak or discuss anything with me. And there are also no safe words so you do not need to talk”

I was laced into the hood and she put another padlock through the bottom rings. With that, there was a knock on the door. She told me that it was her guest that she was expecting and I was told to open the door. There stood an elegant lady in black skirt and boots. I could not say anything so Mistress Gail said “hi, this is my new collard slave. You can call her Rachel”. She then told me to go and fetch a bottle of wine and two glasses from the kitchen. I came back and opened the wine and poured two glasses. I stood to attention to one side. They made small talk until her guest asked about me.

Mistress Gail said “don’t you think that these are just the best maids? They do everything that you We tell them to do and they don’t talk back. They don’t give any trouble either. Come here Rachel and let me show off what you have under your skirt.” I was embarrassed but walked up and stood still. She lifted my skirt to show my caged and locked manhood.“You see” she said, “Rachel is completely sexless, she cannot experience any pleasure at all. I may even keep her locked up for a month or two”

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Then she said “the best part is when she wants to pee. She now has to sit like the sissy girl that she is when she needs to go. Come let’s get her to show us what a sissy girl she is. Come to the toilet and show us how you pee Rachel” she said with a wicked grin. I got up and followed them. At the toilet I lifted my skirt and sat on the seat. I was humiliated and embarrassed as the two of them stood and watched me, drinking their wine. I battled to go, but eventually I peed. They smiled as I tore off some paper to wipe myself. Mistress Gail said “I will be needing your ass pussy later so I need to start stretching it now. I have a huge strap-on just for you” With that she produced a small butt plug and after lubricating it she stuck it up my ass.

Mistress Gail said “I think we need to take this slave to chambers and start breaking her in. but we will take the scenic route through the garden.

Mistress Gail clipped a leash onto my collar and proceeded to lead me outside. We spent an eternity going through the garden before we finally went into chambers.

Once inside, Mistress Gail put cuffs on my hands and feet and bent me over the flogging bench. She attached me to the bench securely and added a strap around my middle and thighs so that I could not move at all. She removed the butt plug and then inserted another. I did not know what was going on until she turned it on. It started to pulsate and go in and out.

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She came around to the front of the bench and I could see a large strap-on cock dangling between her legs. She smiled and said it was for later. She then addressed me. “I am going to introduce you to pain like you have never known it” she said. Mistress was holding a short riding crop. She swished it through the air and the strap-on cock bounced around. “There are no safe words, so as a gesture of compassion, I will give you poppers”. She put some on a cloth and held them to my nose. She went around behind where I could not see. “I think that we will start off with 20 stokes of the hand, ten on each cheek”. I panicked, but could say or do nothing. She started, a gentle rub followed by a smart crack. “That’s one” she said. She went to the other side at a leisurely pace. A gentle caress and Whack, another smack. “That’s two” she said. This continued with intermittent popper dosage until all 20 had had been given.

My bum was on fire and very sensitive. “Now we turn to paddle” she said “and do it all over again. But before that I want to introduce your balls to the violet wand.” With that she pulled out her violet wand and proceeded to shock my balls. After the paddling, mistress walked off. She came back a few minutes later and said “Now to teach you about taking it up the ass” . She removed the pulsating butt plug. She gave me some poppers and said “take a deep breath” next minute I could fell the huge cock sliding inside me.

When Mistress was finally finished, she said “now I will take pity and give you some relief’ she strapped me onto my back and secured my tightly. Once I was immobile she took off the strap-on and climbed onto the bondage table and straddled me. It was so arousing but frustrating to see this beautiful goddess on top of me, but I was completely unable to do anything. She teased me for 10 minutes, and kept asking me if I wanted her. I was driven insane by lust, but could do nothing. “You see that I now control your desires and lust” she said as she got off. After another dose of poppers, she unlocked the cage and started to massage me. I could not control myself and I came. But she didn’t stop stroking me. I could not move my arms or legs and it was starting to get painful. She didn’t care and just kept on. “Breathe in and out slowly” was the only thing she said to me. Eventually I came again. She put the cage back on.

She untied me and let me go upstairs for a shower. After the shower I stood in front of her naked. She bent down to unlock the chastity. When she got up she gave me the padlock and the key, but when I looked down there was a yellow padlock with a combination lock in its place. “I will unlock your collar now and release you from slavery, but as a reminder as to how it could so easily be permanent, I have secured you with a combination lock. You will get dressed now and go back to your hotel.

I will SMS the combination to you so that you can take the chastity off later. Maybe I will do it tonight, maybe tomorrow, maybe next week, or maybe never….”

Shafting through shit with Strapon Play

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Heads up boys, and sissies, their nothing more unpleasant then shafting through shit with strap-on play.
Its all fair and well to think because I’m a women and I’ve raised children of my own in their infantile stage I’ve had my fair share of poo nappies and yes I have.

When it comes to Strap- on play it’s by far the worst as when you pull out you’re strap- on that’s covered in protection its covered in shit and
other times it get so messy when you doing anal stretching or fist-ing and the shit messes onto the towel that you are lying on below your ass.

As I’ve matured through the years I’ve started to advise anal players to give themselves a enema at least an hour before a Strap-on session booking.

Disposable Enemas are available a Dischem

]https://www.dischem.co.za/lenolax-enema-adult-fleet-135ml
Lenolax Enema Adult 135ml
for R 51.95

Its such a joy to session with boys and sissy who have been considerate, of this factor and are squeaky clean for strap- on play putting the effort in
for their Mistress to enjoy a full strap-on session without the mess.

So there you have it boys and sissies instructions from the Senior Strap-on Goddess
Flush the shit out and hour before before Strap-on play
Mistress Gail