Sunday, October 9, 2022

A Journey into Self Exploration and Self discovery

Over the next couple of months I will be breaking bd/sm, fetishes, female domination, down into
explainable sub categories for you to understand if any of theses fetish are a part of your sexually preference or not.

Nipple play abbreviation nt
Let see if Nipple play /Nipple stimulation is a fetish for you or not ?Now you might be wondering
how are we going to do that ? Its quite simple .Pay attention to what I am about to say
and follow my instructions to the T.


Im going to be giving you four different examples of nipple play /stimulation .

Here goes gently caress your nipples with your fingertips very slowly and in a soft light and
featherly manner for a little while. Observe how your body is responding or awakening to the sensations you have created
around your nipple or not ?

No impatience or rushing is required, Easy does it.

Let take a break for 5 min and go find some house hold washing pegs for Me and bring them back to your bedroom or where
every you are reading this from.

Next we going to use our fingernails and gently go up and down and around your nipple with your fingernails.
Once again paying attention to how your body is responding to the sensations your creating around your nipples.

Where are you feeling the sensations from the nipple stimulation in your body and make a mental note there off.
Next you going to take your thumb and index finger and place them around your nipples and tweaking
your nipples up and down with your thumb and index finger.

Once again paying attention to what areas of your body is being stimulated by the nipple stimulation.

Last example pull your nipple forwards and place a washing peg onto your nipple either facing upward
or to the side if you can handle the sensation leave the washing peg on both nipples and flick the washing pegs up and
down on your nipples and once again pay attentions to what erogenous zone of the body is awaking from the nipple stimulation

From your Journey into self exploration in the safety of your own home-space
you are now able to pin point what form of nipple play you into

Examples 1 and 2

One would be able to combined varies forms of bondage with the erotica of sensual tie and tease
nipple play without roleplay into a bd/sm sessions booking and this is know as Sensations play

Why Is Mistress Gail saying Bondage as hand behind your back does what to your body?
it pushes your nipples forward to play with

Examples 3 and 4

One would be able to combined either female domination of a strict/ sensual sadist or Mistress roleplay/
Prisoner dynamic into the mix playing with bondage from leather restraints to tight bondage
and a variety of toys for nipple ie as nipple clamps into a bd/sm sessions booking and this
would be know as a roleplay slave Mistress dynamic.

To explore this further contact Mistress Gail via my booking form link below

An example of another form of sensation play in clip below

Tuesday, July 26, 2022

Fear and the submissive mind written by Ms Lydia Supremacy

What every single Dominatrix experiences in Her professional career.
beautifully integrated and Articulated by Ms Lydia Supremacy

Washington DC Femdom - Ms. Lydia Supremacy

Fear And The Submissive Mind

Many subs or the sub-curious contact me on SextPanther to discuss their fantasies and desire to book a session. It’s very common that it’s followed by, “I want to book a session so badly, but I’m scared!” This is the very reason why pro dommes have deposits in place, particularly for first timers. Fear makes otherwise dependable people turn into flakes. Fear can also suck out the fun from living as our true authentic selves. Not to mention, if you are so overcome with fear that it affects your ability to follow through, the idea of a session with you doesn’t sound like a fun time anymore.

There is no one answer or quick fix, but the common fears preventing subs from moving forward in realizing their fantasies revolve around the fear of the unknown. Sometimes knowing the cause of our fears and viewing the fear through a different lens helps us work through them and attain the human happiness we all crave and deserve. Let’s take a look at some of the causes. While some of this is aimed at submissive men, if you are female, trans or non-binary, you may find yourself with these very same concerns.


Fear 1:

“What if the Mistress does something that makes me feel really uncomfortable, pushes me to do something I’ll regret, or she hurts me really badly?”

This is a fear for a reason. I’ve heard all kinds of horror stories! This is why it’s important to think with the head on your shoulders and not in between your legs when researching a Mistress. Read her website and social media to see her experience level is, what her style is like, and if her style is compatible with what you’re looking to experience. Or arrange for a consultation session either via text, phone, video call, or in person to get to know her better before you commit. It’s also important to negotiate limits. There’s also no shame in starting off light. It’s always better to crave more for next time than excitedly agree to more than you can handle just because you were horny.

If you’re not sure of what you can or can’t handle, consider my “Beginner BDSM Sampler Platter” where I act as more of a friendly kinky guide than a slave training Mistress slowly seducing away your power.

Fear 2:

“What if I like it? Then what?? How will it affect my dating relationships in the future or my current relationship?”

​If you are indeed submissive, then you should know that about yourself and give your submissive self the attention it deserves. You may find you don’t need BDSM play as much as you thought but if you find that you do, celebrate that newfound knowledge! And if you find that you do need it on a very regular basis and desire it within the context of a romantic partnership, just as you take inventory of yourself and what you have to offer a potential partner, you will now know what to factor into your list of requirements that you seek in a relationship. If you are currently partnered, it’s still worth finally finding out if this is indeed a part of your identity and finding a healthy way to nurture your submissive identity. You’d be surprised how many wives have had an open mind and discovered a new dominant side of themselves, or, decided to give dominating their husbands a try, realized it’s not for them, then flat out told their hubbies to book a session with a pro domme. Some subs prefer to keep it as a secret for themselves. That is something you will have to decide for yourself. I can’t tell you what’s right or wrong for you.

Fear 3:

“Will a Mistress actually be into playing with me? Will I disappoint her??”

Mother Nature instilled ego in man for a reason. Of course, there’s the untrained negative end of the male ego spectrum which manifests through thoughtless, self-centered, and uncompromising behaviors. However, on the positive end is the natural desire to please paired with the need to know that you did a job well done. If you did your research and found a compatible Mistress, as long as you are polite, thoughtful, and follow her commands to the best of your ability, no doubt she will be very pleased with you. She may express that by bragging about you on Twitter, or if she’s more low-key (or not a social media person), her satisfaction will be expressed with a smile, a “good boy” (or girl), a reward, or simply allowing you to see her in the future. And when your efforts are appreciated, remember that it’s not to feed your ego, but to appreciate and encourage you. Don’t let it go to your head. ;-)


Fear 4:

“What if I like it so much that I want to do it all the time??”

Mostly what happens is that a first timer will be so thrilled that they finally tried it out and can finally start to embrace themselves. Then they can figure out a healthy balance for themselves. For some who had a lot of repressed submissive feelings, they had to go on a mini splurge to balance themselves out. Imagine being in a country that didn’t have your favorite dessert, then coming back home after ten years. You’d probably run straight to the bakery and pig out for a week or two, then your pastry starved self would be satisfied, and the cravings will calm down.

In the same way, the desire to submit does eventually calm down to less frequency, and you’ll find your balance of how often you should session. Some subs find their balance is a once-a-year birthday gift of self-care. Others quarterly or monthly, or even more if their finances and schedules allow. I find it’s better to set a realistic schedule (and what works with your budget) rather than try to go too long and deny yourself. How often have we seen dieters try to cut out all sugar or carbs forever? They end up failing and developing unhealthy relationships with food.

I don’t subscribe to the idea of submission (or dominance for that matter) being “naughty”, “a treat”, “indulgent”, or any other negative word. Your submissiveness should be embraced and nurtured in a safe space with someone whom you can trust and accepts who you are. That way you can dive right into submission without any fears.

Wednesday, May 25, 2022

“Men become more do better”

“Men become more do better”

Looking to explore you’re fantasies and fetishes in a safe play space
and not sure about how to go about communicating them across to
a Professional Dominatrix for you to visit Her for a session booking,

Question to ask yourself first.

1. How long has Miss been specializing in her chosen field for ?

2. Does Miss work independently for Her Home or is She working from an Agency ?

3. Is it a Dungeon Environment or domestic environment that you feel safe to explore you’re kink in ?

4. Are Miss BDSM interest and activities compatible with my own ?

5. If its a Dungeon or Domestic setting is all the necessary equipment and paraphernalia
there to actively explore Our /our BDSM activities together or not ?

6. What are Miss Boundaries and limits ?

7. Is there mutual respect regarding my own boundaries and limits as well ?

8. How do i approach and communicate with Miss that she will be interested in
facilitating me and allowing me to explore my BDSM activities with Her ?

9. What reviews are on the internet regarding Miss skills and services
from clients that have seen Her for Her Professional services ?

Next Question to ask yourself ?

How do I approach Miss / Hi

]That’s not going to cut it …
To Miss that a sex slave and a full house chap and not a client she would be interested in seeing and my
contact will be immediately dismissed on what app or sms , A blue tick with no reply.

Maybe a photo of what I’m wanting to explore as I’m shy
Nope that not going to cut it either as you coming across as rude with no Good Morning good afternoon depending upon
what time of day you are contacting Miss and just a photo on a what app message
is treating Miss as a fetish atm of feed my interest only.
Showing Miss straight away that no effort has been put into the communication with
Her. Reflecting the thought process to Miss of you’re not worth you’re weight in gold and
the energy connection of compatibility is not presence for a visit.
No reply from Miss.

Receiving no reply from Miss and Doing this ???
will also be ignored

Contacting Miss outside of her working hours and expecting a reply
Another blue tick and msg deleted.

Best to put my best foot forward with

Good Afternoon Miss Gail My name is Josh and I’m a novice and i found you’re website online from reading more i gathered
that we/ We share similar BDSM interest and activities and was wondering whether my activities of interest would
perk Miss interest for Miss to allow me the privilege and honor to visit Miss for a Fem dom session booking.
Express in detail what BDSM activities you have.

Be Polite and well mannered in you’re written communication to Miss

Approaching Miss this way will be far more appealing to Miss
for Miss to interact further with you in written communication for
a visit for a session booking

This posting has been written to assisting budding new clients as well as the sex slave
full house chaps who seem to thinks now that I’ve have seen a full service provider for some BDSM activities

I’m wanting to level up and visit a Professional Dominatrix for a session booking
and has no slave training regarding mannerism and etiquette on how to approach
a Professional Dominatrix for Her to notice you.
For you visit Her for a session booking.

Dominate Regards
Mistress Gail

Friday, April 29, 2022

Collaboration Double Mistresss Sessions


Hello All,

Mistress Gail and Mistress Kattza have joined forces for Double Mistress sessions.

Ones imagination can run wild with how you could be used and
abused by two gorgeous Mistresses wicked grin.

Ie. Two Mistresses giving you a caning and so much more.

Sessions can be conducted in either Linden or Kensington.
Mistress Kattza and Mistress Gail would require a day notice for a
double Mistress session and a deposit would be required
to secure you session booking to eliminate timewasters
and bullshitters.

Any other Mistresses that are keen on collaborating with Us please get in touch.

Wicked Regards
Mistress Gail & Mistress Kattza

Monday, January 10, 2022

The Scoop On finding the Domme of Your Dreams by Dirk Hooper.


If you’re a submissive man and you’re looking for a femdom relationship, I have bad news for you.

The path will not be easy.

A decade ago, I wrote about something I called the “Domme Deficit.” Simply put, there are a lot more submissive men out there than there are dominant women. While things have improved in recent years the ratio between submissive men and dominant women could be as high as 20 to 1.

If you factor in where you live, kink compatibility, and things like having similar vanilla interests, then the outlook is grim.

There’s a reason professional dominatrices can charge $300 an hour or more for their services. And it has everything to do with scarcity.

While we’re on the subject, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with going to a professional dominatrix to experience what it’s like to be submissive or to explore fetishes and desires.

Professional dominatrices have experience, training, all the outfits and toys, and usually a quality playspace. It’s worth the time and the money to seek a professional dominatrix because they have invested a lot in making sure that your experience is memorable.

However, if you’re looking for an intimate relationship with a woman who is dominant, then you have a lot of work ahead of you.

I am in an unique position. For the past two decades, I have built a career around fetish photography and media services for the kinky crowd. That means I have worked with dominatrices from around the world.

Given my unusual level of access to dominatrix has led to a few intimate long-term relationships, but not as many as you might think.

If it’s tough for me, in my position, and with my reach, to find a dominant woman then it will be doubly difficult for most other guys.

So, with that in mind, here are a few suggestions on what to do to give you the best chance of meeting the female dominant of your dreams.

Get Your Own Act Together

The first thing you should do is take a good look at yourself. It’s time to be critical.

Make sure your grooming and your appearance are up to par. If you’re not in shape, hit the gym and eat better. And it wouldn’t hurt to clean up your place and get ready for visitors.

Do all the things you would do for yourself if you would go out on a date with any other woman. Actually, do more.

Maybe it’s a great time for a new haircut or a good time to trim your beard or try adding a few new pieces to your wardrobe.

Anything you can do to make yourself look and feel more confident, and to project you have your act together, will help.

Put Yourself Out There
I get contacted daily… daily, by submissive men who want me to introduce them to dominant women.

That’s not my job, that’s your job!

What are you doing to put yourself out there?

Start by taking an open and honest assessment about who you are and what you’re looking for. Write a brief bio that concentrates mostly on yourself. Talk a little bit about your accomplishments, but even more about your demeanor, what makes you laugh, what your goals are, and what makes you unique. Don’t get so damn specific on all of your fetish interests, this is not the time to talk about all that.

Take that brief bio and put it on all of the kinky dating sites plus OkCupid, which I hear is open-minded about kink.

Create a few social media accounts for your kinky persona and talk to people in a real and respectful manner. One of the social media accounts should be on Fetlife.

Talk less about what you’re looking for and more about who you are and what you offer.

Finally, get out of your damn house and go visit a local BDSM group.

I know all of the excuses you could give me for why you can’t do it. Like, the group is too far away, or you’re too shy, or you have no one to go with, or you’re scared, or whatever.

Look, what you have to decide is whether you will let all those things prevent you from getting the domme of your dreams or if you will nut up and make it happen.

I can promise you right now that no dominatrix is going to magically appear on your front doorstep and ask if you want to be dominated. You will have to make some serious effort and that means attending local BDSM groups where you can meet real dominant women.

Listen. Listen. Listen.

While you’re out there searching for people on the Internet or attending events at your local BDSM group you must listen to what real dominant women are looking for. Whether it’s in profiles, or in a conversation, women will tell you the submissive they are hunting for.

Put aside your own fantasies for a moment and pay close attention to what these women are saying. If you can connect with someone there will be plenty of time for you to talk about your own fantasies. Focus on what the woman wants.

Hello! This is a basic tenet of the femdom relationship.

And While We’re on the Subject…
Compatibility will be a major factor in any kink relationship. In most cases, you will not find someone who totally matches all of your desires.

Again, if you want all of your fetishes or scenarios met perfectly, then maybe you should look at a professional dominatrix.

If you want to be in a relationship then there will be give-and-take involved. You may not get to do all of the things you want to do because your partner isn’t interested.

And because dominant women have a much wider selection of options they are in the superior position, both literally and figuratively. They can be picky because the numbers favor them.

If you can get most of what you’re looking for then you should count yourself lucky.

Realize You Might Not Be Looking for a Relationship at All

After I wrote a fiction book on a femdom relationship I got my share of emails from submissive men who did not understand what was involved.

They erroneously thought a relationship would have the dominant woman dressed in lingerie regularly and that they would live in a world where it would be playtime all the time.

Furthermore, they never considered that there would be actual servitude, which might include chores, discipline, and consequences for your actions.

Relationships can literally be anything you and your partner decide, but many real-life femdom relationships include downtime, going to your jobs, taking care of kids, visiting relatives, and all the aspects of a vanilla relationship.

Maybe you’re not looking for a real femdom relationship. Maybe you want to find someone who will scene with you occasionally. There’s nothing wrong with that. Being available just for playtime might open more opportunities for you.

And again, maybe you should consider just paying a professional for the experience you’re looking for and go back to your regular life the rest of the time.

On the Other Hand…
Maybe you want the real thing, and that’s great. It’s out there.

I talk with real femdom couples daily, and their relationships are incredibly inspiring and incredibly real. But those relationships didn’t happen by accident. They required being in the right place at the right time, keeping an open mind, and being ready and available physically, mentally, and spiritually.

If you’re a submissive man looking for a dominant woman, you will need to do the things that will give you an advantage over all the other guys out there (and there are a lot).

When you meet the woman of your dreams, you better be ready to impress.

Please tell me your tips and experiences in meeting the domme of your dreams in the comments section below.