Hello everyone,

I’ve decided to transition the blog to a subscription model, still linked to this current platform. I've noticed that, here in Johannesburg, the blog has lost some of its initial significance.

The changes we've experienced since COVID have been profound. Humanity collectively faced the fear of death, and instead of recognizing our resilience in overcoming this fear, we seem to have slipped into a cycle of negativity.

This situation has exposed unhealthy behaviour's, leading to a decline in manners and respect among men towards women. There is a troubling expectation that women should navigate the complexities of work and financial dynamics within the sex industry.

Where there was once mutual respect for women in this field, the landscape has shifted significantly to a survival mode expectation in men for women in the sex industry and dictatorship of thinking I call the shots forgetting that all sex  workers have boundaries and limits  to their services .
Hence the term vanilla fuck boys

Now, interactions often reduce to, “I’m interested in these activities, but only under one condition…” In these moments, my boundaries are frequently overlooked, indicating that individuals haven’t taken the time to review My boundaries and limits outlined on my website.

Some messages read, “I want this and this; can you accommodate me?” without even a simple, “Hello, how are you?” or checking for compatibility before a BDSM session. Or Miss Gail ?? To which I just delete 

Moreover, many  clients mistakenly believe that money guarantees access, to which I often respond, “It’s not about the money; it’s about the connection and  compatible kinks. first to see if their a  connection first before I even allow you in to serve Me.

Women have worked hard to maintain their self-respect, while many men seem to have lost both their manners and respect for themselves and others in the process.

Another concern is that I offer a bottoming service, which isn’t publicly advertised on my site. It’s disheartening to see the survival mode many men have adopted, wrongly assuming that women are in the same position.

I’ve come to realize that a significant amount of inconsiderate behavior exists among wanna be slaves or subs of being subbie trash who do not respect my boundaries. I've even shifted to other online advertising platforms where time-wasters are less prevalent.

As a result, my cell phone number is no longer available on my website; the best way to connect with Me for  a session is through email correspondence. 

Sessions are by invitation only, and securing a position to serve requires a deposit to filter out time-wasters.

This ensures that I can devote my time, energy, skills, and expertise to those who respect me, and whom I respect in return, for a session where they know  their place in my world.